Since I have had a lot of
reactions to my comment on Marlene Dietrich I will try to make myself
clear: I do not regard Dietrich as a good or a bad person. She was
brought up in an era when little love was lost on children. They were
regarded as small adults, be it among the peasantry, the urban
proteltariat or in fashionable socielite circles.
The early loss of her
father and the apparent lack of parental affection may have developed
a fragile self with a low self esteem which often result in a life
long compensatory urge. Dietrich may, and it may seem a paradox but
is common, have felt ”guilty” of the loss of her father and lived
up to the expectations of an ”evil” self or developed a very
strong urge to ensure herself of men´s affection or at least
attraction which she never got from the father, a compulsary need for
affection or at least attention.
Her promiscuity could
have been a ”revenge” or a need to compensate for a low self
esteem by ”collecting” men, weaker than herself. She made good and bad choices, like all of us, with the exception that her doings were blown up a hundred times because of her celebrity status.
If Hitler and Stalin had
grown up in parental love and great affection I doubt they would have
become the monsters they turned out to be...
Douglas
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